Buying lingerie as a gift for your partner can feel intimidating. Between sizing, style and personal taste, it’s easy to worry about choosing the wrong thing. When it’s done thoughtfully, though, lingerie becomes one of the most intimate and meaningful gifts you can give. It’s not just about how it looks, but how it makes your partner feel.
I’ve put together this guide to help you buy lingerie as a gift with confidence. From sneaky ways to find their size to choosing a style they’ll actually love, this is a simple, stress-free approach to gifting lingerie.
How to Find Your Partner’s Lingerie Size Without Asking
Getting the size right is usually the biggest concern when buying lingerie as a gift. There are a few subtle ways to find this information without spoiling the surprise.
Check their current lingerie drawer. Look at the labels on bras and underwear and note the sizing. A quick photo on your phone can help you remember.
Pay attention to brands they already wear. If they tend to shop from the same lingerie brands, their size is likely consistent. My Lazy Girl Lingerie designs include adjustable straps and flexible fits, which makes them more forgiving when gifting.
Ask someone they trust. A close friend or sister may already know their size and can often give helpful insight into what styles they feel confident in.
When in doubt, choose adjustable pieces. Bodysuits, bralettes and sets with adjustable straps are ideal if you’re unsure or buying as a surprise.
How to Choose the Right Lingerie Style for Them
The best lingerie gift is chosen with your partner in mind. It should reflect their personality and make them feel comfortable, confident and desired.
Think about their overall style. Some people love soft, romantic designs with lace and delicate details. Others prefer bold, structured styles or clean, modern lines. Comfort-first partners often appreciate lingerie that feels wearable while still being sensual.
Take note of what they already wear. Look at the cuts, fabrics and colours they gravitate toward. Their current lingerie is the best guide to what they’ll love.
My Most-Gifted Lazy Girl Lingerie Pieces
If you’re feeling unsure, these Lazy Girl Lingerie best sellers are popular for a reason. They are designed to feel beautiful, comfortable and wearable, making them ideal lingerie gifts.
Ava Lingerie Set
The Ava Lingerie Set is one of my most gifted pieces. It’s timeless, flattering and designed to make the wearer feel confident and supported.
• Handmade and ethically made
• Feminine lace with a comfortable fit
• A classic lingerie gift that feels special
Blake Lingerie Set
The Blake Lingerie Set is perfect for someone who loves a more modern, confident look. It features clean lines with a sensual edge and is designed to be worn and loved beyond special occasions.
• Contemporary and flattering design
• Comfortable while still feeling bold
• Ideal for everyday wear or intimate moments
Skylar Bodysuit
If you’re nervous about sizing, the Skylar Bodysuit is a great option. Bodysuits are versatile and forgiving, which makes them one of the easiest lingerie pieces to gift.
• Adjustable and flexible fit
• Flattering on many body shapes
• A statement piece that feels effortless
Shop the Skylar Bodysuit.
Handcuffs and Blindfold Set
For a playful addition to your gift, the handcuffs and blindfold set adds a sense of intimacy and fun. It’s a thoughtful way to elevate a lingerie gift without feeling overwhelming.
• Sensual and beginner-friendly
• Designed for couples
• A perfect add-on gift
Shop the Handcuffs and Blindfold Set
Making Your Lingerie Gift Meaningful
Lingerie becomes truly special when it’s gifted with intention. A handwritten note, thoughtful wrapping or a few words about why you chose the piece can make all the difference.
Every Lazy Girl Lingerie piece is handmade ethically and slowly, designed to be cherished rather than worn once and forgotten.
Final Tips for Buying Lingerie as a Gift
• Focus on comfort and confidence first
• Adjustable styles are the safest choice when unsure
• Quality and ethical production matter
• Thoughtful gifting always stands out
If you’re ready to find a lingerie gift your partner will truly love, you can explore the full Lazy Girl Lingerie collection here.